Everything in the entire universe is always about love.

And when it isn't about love,
it's about the absence of love.

We're Told Love Just Happens...

Then just as soon as we feel it, life runs our hearts through the washer and dryer -- whether with partners, parents, children, friends, or community members!

Welcome to the School For Love, where we honor the multiple dimensions of love over age 40: philia -- friendship, eros -- romantic love, storge -- familial love, and agape -- universal compassion. As Carl Jung put it, “Up until then you are just doing research.” After age 40, we begin our magnum opus period of self-becoming.

Contemporary research shows we live longer and healthier with more love in our life, so take our Authintimacy Quiz now and let's get back into learning mode!

Some of the best advice on increasing the passion in a relationship. Use this technique and your love life will take on an entirely new dimension and depth of intimate connection… to a level that every man + woman craves.

The course that launched the School For Love... Available in group or 1:1 formats, this 12-week program helps you crystallize your desired relationship, attract it in your dating profile, and follow a guaranteed method to manifest/femifest your relationship dream!

Positive Masculinity

Besides the common notion of romantic/erotic love is brotherly love...
For spiritual men in their prime who've felt life knock the wind out of them... this 12-week program rebuilds esteem and confidence along with accountability for your comeback!

Explore new techniques with super-honest videos, animations & how-to’s from the largest-ever research study into pleasure (20,000 women!)

Inspiration for women, men & couples, solo or together.

Maybe you like ketchup, she likes vinegar, he likes garlic aioli on a hot batch of fries, chips or frites…

The “secret sauce” to creating a soulmate relationship is knowing the difference between what you and your partner want most.

This recorded symposium brings together love, relationship, and life experts --
empowering you to change your approach to dating so you finally find (create) the loving relationship you deserve.

Research on this unique molecule won the Nobel Prize for just how important it is for how human beings function on a daily basis... for bloodflow, energy, immune system, and libido!

The “Five Text” Secret to

capturing a man’s interest -- and the real reason men lose interest, send you unwanted photos, stop texting you back, and more.

Gimmicks, pick up lines and routines borrowed from someone else don't work because they're neither authentic nor genuine to your character. Check out this in-depth, behind-the-scenes, fast-track education in female psychology and attraction.

Even though you think it's impossible, you can use this technique to compel your ex

to fall back in love with you again... for good. Use these simple, covert psychological tactics to make your former boyfriend yearn for your attention again.

It's been proven that more than 90% of all relationships can be salvaged... and yours is no different. Not only can you get her back... but if you play your cards right and follow this advice, you'll be able to turn the tables completely.

Discover the one sneaky thing that’s blocking your happiness -- in just 60 seconds.

(HINT: it’s not what you think)
Once you know what your “happiness killer” is, you can slay it and finally find the happiness and fulfillment you’ve been missing!

Of the six primary challenges to every relationship, the Authintimacy framework addresses the two biggies. This workshop helps you put the model into practice for clarity and closeness.

Read Experiences with The School For Love . . .

Theresa

Bellingham WA

“I joined a School For Love dating event and love the innovative thinking that brought that about. The Covid pandemic changed so many relationships for me, and dating is no exception. I could see from the depth and honesty of our conversation, that the folks in that event are interested in personal and inner work… how refreshing! I appreciated the no-pressure atmosphere that the facilitator established as a baseline. I’m looking forward to the next course or event, and getting to know others at a speed and intensity that makes sense for me.”

Sean

Rural Vermont

"Just wanted to follow up on the School For Love program I took part in recently.

It felt so good to hear perspectives from others who have their own doubts. I often feel alone in situations like this, yet in the end there are so many of us experiencing the same feelings. In fact, I heard someone express some of my very own inner thoughts!

Others surely will benefit from these structured conversations you’re facilitating, thanks so much.”

Heather

Austin TX

“As a woman of 43, single for a decade, recovering from the crazy Covid chapter of dating has been hard so Paul’s teachings are super helpful. Especially lately, when my self-care and self-worth hold such a high regard. A person who can cherish me as much as I cherish them would be ideal in my world. So here we are... navigating this new dating realm. The School For Love offers a great learning experience. I’ve learned to remind myself to not be too hard on myself in this process, that I now have the skills to attract the right person for me at the right divine timing – thank you!”

Our Vision

A world where spiritual people, grounded in the uniqueness of their being, full of love and esteem and purpose, connect with others joyfully and meaningfully for inspiration, learning, collaboration, growth, play, and pleasure – and in turn, groups of loving people positively impact the whole with cohesion and community.

The School For Love welcomes you regardless of your gender/identity, dating preference/exclusivity, race, religion, national origin, dis/abilities, medical choices, and age (though our current programs do focus on 40+).

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